12. What should I do if I have questions about your gender, sexuality, nationality, race, religion, relationships, and/or political stances on various subjects?
If you have questions, please feel free to ask them respectfully. I am open to discussing serious inquires about my identities and how they inform my work, as long as they are professional and considerate. If you want to discuss any of this in detail, or you have lots of follow-up questions, please be respectful of my time and book a consultation session.
13. How do you handle misgendering or inappropriate questions during sessions?
I'll probably frown. If you have passed my screening process, such occurrences are presumably unintentional and will be handled courteously and with grace. If I instead discover that I have misjudged your character, I will end the session and refrain from any future interactions with you.
14. How do I book a session?
If you are a new client, introduce yourself to me using my contact form and include a brief overview of your interests and goals. Note that all clients must complete a screening process before their first session.
15. What should I expect in a session?
Each session is tailored to your individual needs and interests. During our initial consultation, we will discuss your goals, boundaries, and any concerns you may have to ensure a positive and enriching experience.
16. Do you offer virtual consultations or sessions?
Yes, I offer virtual consultations and sessions for those who cannot meet in person or prefer online interactions. These can be conducted via video, voice, or text. The screening process applies to virtual sessions as well.
17. How should I prepare for my first session?
For your first session, it’s important to have a clear understanding of your goals and boundaries. Dress comfortably and be ready to communicate openly about your needs and expectations. If you have any specific requests or concerns, please let me know in advance.
18. What is your cancellation policy?
A non-refundable deposit of $50 is due at booking. In the event of a cancellation, your deposit will be forfeited. If necessary, you may reschedule your session ONCE with sufficient advanced notice.
19. Can I gift a session to someone else?
The short answer is yes, if they are an existing client or they pass my screening process. Please contact me directly to arrange something like this.
20. What if I have experienced trauma or abuse?
As a trauma-informed practitioner and a survivor of abuse myself, I understand the importance of creating a safe and supportive environment. We will work together to ensure that our time together is healing and empowering.
21. How did you become a BDSM Crisis Actor?
My career as a method actor began in childhood when I developed the skill as a coping mechanism for living with undiagnosed autism and my socially abnormal transgender tendencies. I discovered early on that my parents, teachers, and other adults were unwilling or unable to accept the truth about my experiences. Ironically, I found that the only way I could avoid being called a "liar'' was to fabricate elaborate personas based on my observations of the behaviors and (generally extrinsic) motivations of other children. This pattern persisted well into my adult life until living inauthentically began to take a serious toll on my mental health. Now, I use this skill in more artistic and intentional ways as part of my mission to make the world a safer place for everyone to live authentically.
